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Dr. Rubin Naiman
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Narcolepsy. Though many recognize the word, relatively few of us know what it really means. And why should we? As far as sleep disorders go, it’s not nearly as common as insomnia or apnea. And let’s face it, it doesn’t sound very sexy either. Read More
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“You must sleep sometime between lunch and dinner, and no halfway measures.
Take off your clothes and get into bed. That’s what I always do. Don’t think you will be doing less work because you sleep during the day. That’s a foolish notion held by people who have no imaginations. You will be able to accomplish more. You get two days in one—well, at least one and a half.” Read More
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Dr. Seuss’ Chippendale Mupp, a quirky creature with an impossibly long tail, has an important hidden message for children of all ages. Featured in his classic, The Sleep Book, the Mupp routinely chomps down on the end of its tail before getting into bed. Read More
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This week we observe the 42th anniversary of Earth Day. Once again we conjure familiar images of smoggy skylines, toxic landfills and lethal oil spills along with the mounting evidence of global warming. And we also celebrate the heightened awareness and many major environmental initiatives promoted by Earth Day. Read More
Sleep Studio
Ed, an accomplished attorney in Southern California, was quite proud of the fact that he never had to change his sleep position to determine what time it was when he found himself awake at night.
“I have a digital clock with a bright oversized blue display on the dresser to the left of my bed, I wear a wrist watch with a large illuminated face on my right hand, and the clock on my nightstand projects the time onto the ceiling directly above my bed.” Ed smiled, “Pretty cool, huh?” Read More
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Jamie was a bright and perky, forty-something publicist and mother of two who came to see me for chronic middle of the night awakenings. She gestured emphatically with her left hand as she told me her sleep story, while simultaneously using her right hand to manage email signals from her smartphone. Read More
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We sleep in stages – from very light, which is actually a mix of sleep and relaxed wakefulness to thoroughly deep sleep. Getting good quality sleep is just as important as the number of hours we sleep. Read More
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“Some nights I find myself drifting mechanically from meaningless task to task. On other nights from one TV program or website to another.” said Randy. “I can’t believe it took me this long to realize I was just reluctant to go to bed.” Randy was talking about the nearly three years that had lapsed since the divorce. “Sleeping alone was a painful reminder of my loneliness.” Read More
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Have you ever thought about the curious relationship between sleep and love? Most of us would likely agree that both are highly desirable, though too often elusive states.
Both sleep and love enhance health in surprisingly similar ways. By eliciting a parasympathetic nervous system response, love encourages feelings of deep relaxation. This is associated with a thorough sense of receptivity and letting go. Sleep and love both call for a kind of sweet surrender. We fall in love. And, we fall asleep. Read More
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Pillow talk can provide a unique opportunity to deepen intimacy by enhancing our empathic connection with our partner. The transition between waking and sleep, referred to as Stage I sleep, is characterized by alpha brain waves. Recent research has found that alpha waves are linked to measurably increased activity of mirror neurons, brain cells that facilitate empathy. In less technical terns, our hearts naturally open as we drift into sleep. Although we are less focused and rational, it’s a time when we can be especially present with our partner. Read More
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Chronic inflammation is essentially a process of immune function overactivation in which the immune system engages in unfriendly fire, attacking parts its own host. This smoldering autoimmune process has been identified as a predisposing factor in all major illnesses including depression and sleep disorders. Chronic inflammation appears to have a bi-directional link to insomnia. A single night of sleep deprivation can increase levels of inflammation while inflammatory conditions are also known to disrupt sleep. Read More
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Sleep duration in the U.S. decreased by an average of 1.5-2 hours per night during the second half of the 20th century. Many people routinely sleep only 5-6 hours per night. The National Institutes of Health reports that 60 million American struggle with insomnia. Read More
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Our natural rhythms guide our relationship with personal energy. Energy is procured, consumed, assimilated, stored, utilized, recycled and replenished –all within rhythmic processes. (All energy can be depicted in terms of waves, which include an active ascending component and a more restful descending component.) Read More
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BRAC refers to subtle rhythmic processes like eating, breathing, heart rate and brain wave activity. that underlie, inform and structure our waking lives. These are roughly 90-minute cycles of activation and rest that recur throughout the day in association with pronounced alternating patterns of brain hemispheric activity. Like the heart, though much more leisurely, each side of the brain takes its turn pumping and then resting. One side is more rational and linguistic, the other more visual and artistic. Read More
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Life is by nature fundamentally rhythmic. From the oscillation of atomic particles to the swirl of galaxies, from our brain waves to our heartbeat, and from the cycles of night and day to the seasons of the sun, rhythms rule our world. And they regulate us. From personal routines and religious rituals to standard operating procedures or rock and roll, rhythms provide a structure for virtually all aspects of life. In the course of our daily lives, they serve as clocks, calendars and metronomes telling us when to sleep, dream and awaken. Read More
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I have often been asked if there is a secret to a good night’s sleep. Although the question is broad, almost philosophical, it invites us into a critical and often overlooked discussion. If there is a secret to a good night’s sleep, it is a good days waking. By reflecting on the quality of our waking lives we can see how intricately sleep mediates our experience of, well… everything. Read More
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Given the acute distress often associated with sleeplessness, it’s not surprising that so many of us respond to it with limited stop-gap, band-aid type solutions. In my practice I’ve found that so much of what we do to manage sleeplessness simply makes it worse. Read More
Psychology Today
A few years ago I accompanied a visiting friend, Rafael, to an AA meeting. Having occasionally sat in on 12-step meetings over the years, I generally knew what to expect. The only surprise this evening was that the smokers were now huddled outside, quickly getting their last fix of… Read More
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I’d like to share a brief bedtime story — actually, it’s a story about a character in a bedtime story. It’s about one of Dr. Seuss’s enigmatic little creatures, the Chippendale Mupp, who is featured in his classic “Sleep Book.” The Mupp is a sharp-toothed furry fellow with… Read More
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Could it be that struggles with attaining deep sleep mirror struggles with connecting to our deeper selves? Read More
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When it comes to conversations about insomnia, one might think we were at war. This isn’t all that surprising, since we generally approach health problems as adversaries. We fight disease, combat infections, kill germs and go to battle with our symptoms.
These kinds of fighting words are integral to… Read More
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I believe that dreaming is among the most critical misunderstood and overlooked factors in our health, well-being and spiritual development. In contrast to waking, which is typically about an intentional, concrete and active relationship with the world around us, dreaming is more about a receptive, expansive and ethereal relationship with… Read More
Psychology Today
Whether at the beginning or the middle of the night, epidemic insomnia leaves millions of us routinely struggling with that tricky transition from waking to sleep. Understanding the subtle shift in consciousness inherent in this nightly process is crucial to reclaiming our personal power to get to sleep. Read More
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We live in a world where drama is so ubiquitous that we have largely habituated to its insidious impact on our lives. Beyond the personal dramas that may visit, so many of us are overexposed to a much broader range of dramatic experiences through the media -especially news reports, television dramas and print media. Read More
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Ask insomniacs why they can’t sleep and they’ll likely tell you its because they’re just not sleepy enough. But, how could this be? Given their chronic sleep loss and typical diligence about doing all the right things, surely they must be sleepy. But, they’re not. In fact, they are even… Read More
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I believe the main reason we struggle with epidemic sleep disorders is our failure to examine fundamental misconceptions that inform our understanding of and approach to sleep. These misconceptions are rooted in a tendency to define sleep negatively — that is, in terms of what it’s not. Like our conception… Read More
Psychology Today
So, how do we cool the psychological fever of the depression-insomnia complex? We begin by reconsidering symptoms of depression as possible endogenous healing responses. We trust our body and brain’s intention to heal, to reduce the heat of excessive waking by slowing us down and opening us up. Read More
Psychology Today
Depression is a disorder of waking life. At least, that’s our common presumption. Read More
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When I was a little boy and happened not to be feeling well, my mother would routinely ask me three questions. Having grown up in an old-world village, she clung to simpler, traditional views of health, including her folksy health assessment.
Her first question was always: “What did you eat?” Read More